November 21, 2017, 4:25 pm
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1 Philippine Peso = 0.34334 Argentine Peso
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1 Philippine Peso = 0.92566 Gambian Dalasi
1 Philippine Peso = 176.89283 Guinea Franc
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1 Philippine Peso = 4.01731 Guyana Dollar
1 Philippine Peso = 0.15359 Hong Kong Dollar
1 Philippine Peso = 0.46264 Honduras Lempira
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1 Philippine Peso = 1.21691 Haiti Gourde
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1 Philippine Peso = 266.33236 Indonesian Rupiah
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1 Philippine Peso = 21.59685 Korean Won
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1 Philippine Peso = 26.80433 Myanmar Kyat
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1 Philippine Peso = 0.15822 Macau Pataca
1 Philippine Peso = 6.90266 Mauritania Ougulya
1 Philippine Peso = 0.6647 Mauritius Rupee
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1 Philippine Peso = 0.37348 Mexican Peso
1 Philippine Peso = 0.08155 Malaysian Ringgit
1 Philippine Peso = 0.27622 Namibian Dollar
1 Philippine Peso = 7.00098 Nigerian Naira
1 Philippine Peso = 0.60177 Nicaragua Cordoba
1 Philippine Peso = 0.16317 Norwegian Krone
1 Philippine Peso = 2.03638 Nepalese Rupee
1 Philippine Peso = 0.02891 New Zealand Dollar
1 Philippine Peso = 0.00756 Omani Rial
1 Philippine Peso = 0.01967 Panama Balboa
1 Philippine Peso = 0.06359 Peruvian Nuevo Sol
1 Philippine Peso = 0.06374 Papua New Guinea Kina
1 Philippine Peso = 1 Philippine Peso
1 Philippine Peso = 2.06568 Pakistani Rupee
1 Philippine Peso = 0.07087 Polish Zloty
1 Philippine Peso = 110.87513 Paraguayan Guarani
1 Philippine Peso = 0.07473 Qatar Rial
1 Philippine Peso = 0.07785 Romanian New Leu
1 Philippine Peso = 1.16841 Russian Rouble
1 Philippine Peso = 16.36755 Rwanda Franc
1 Philippine Peso = 0.07374 Saudi Arabian Riyal
1 Philippine Peso = 0.15449 Solomon Islands Dollar
1 Philippine Peso = 0.26735 Seychelles Rupee
1 Philippine Peso = 0.13097 Sudanese Pound
1 Philippine Peso = 0.16686 Swedish Krona
1 Philippine Peso = 0.0267 Singapore Dollar
1 Philippine Peso = 0.01486 St Helena Pound
1 Philippine Peso = 0.4367 Slovak Koruna
1 Philippine Peso = 149.85251 Sierra Leone Leone
1 Philippine Peso = 10.99312 Somali Shilling
1 Philippine Peso = 410.64307 Sao Tome Dobra
1 Philippine Peso = 0.17207 El Salvador Colon
1 Philippine Peso = 10.12743 Syrian Pound
1 Philippine Peso = 0.27624 Swaziland Lilageni
1 Philippine Peso = 0.64562 Thai Baht
1 Philippine Peso = 0.04905 Tunisian Dinar
1 Philippine Peso = 0.04547 Tongan paʻanga
1 Philippine Peso = 0.07723 Turkish Lira
1 Philippine Peso = 0.13037 Trinidad Tobago Dollar
1 Philippine Peso = 0.59133 Taiwan Dollar
1 Philippine Peso = 43.93314 Tanzanian Shilling
1 Philippine Peso = 0.51976 Ukraine Hryvnia
1 Philippine Peso = 71.28811 Ugandan Shilling
1 Philippine Peso = 0.01967 United States Dollar
1 Philippine Peso = 0.57699 Uruguayan New Peso
1 Philippine Peso = 158.89873 Uzbekistan Sum
1 Philippine Peso = 0.19617 Venezuelan Bolivar
1 Philippine Peso = 446.39136 Vietnam Dong
1 Philippine Peso = 2.10089 Vanuatu Vatu
1 Philippine Peso = 0.05108 Samoa Tala
1 Philippine Peso = 10.98368 CFA Franc (BEAC)
1 Philippine Peso = 0.0531 East Caribbean Dollar
1 Philippine Peso = 10.988 CFA Franc (BCEAO)
1 Philippine Peso = 1.98682 Pacific Franc
1 Philippine Peso = 4.91504 Yemen Riyal
1 Philippine Peso = 0.2763 South African Rand
1 Philippine Peso = 102.05507 Zambian Kwacha
1 Philippine Peso = 7.11701 Zimbabwe dollar

Hackneyed Comfort

Perhaps it isn’t a good idea to keep saying “Everything happens for a reason” when something bad or tragic happens to someone. One day, we might get an answer like, “Oh, yeah? Like what?” Accompanied by a withering stare. 

Because no matter how good our intentions are, it could sound like we’re just brushing off someone’s pain with an easy platitude. 

I have a friend whose five-year-old son died on the operating table. It was more than devastating. 

Maybe God has another word that’s worse than “devastating,” because if there’s a word that’s far worse than that, it’s what my friend is going through. 

With my limited vocabulary, and man’s sorely limited sense of empathy, I don’t think there’s a thesaurus in the world that can give this mom a word that can accurately describe how she feels about losing her adorable little boy. 

That’s why it was such a pain to hear people tell her, “Oh, everything happens for a reason... he’s enjoying it so much in heaven now. He’s in a much better place!” And variations of the same theme. 

I know these people meant well. I know what they’re saying is true. But somehow, what they said didn’t bring my friend much comfort. In fact, I could see that it was leaving her dead cold. But she was just too polite to even wince. I knew she was trying hard not to take offense. 

Imagine that. A person in deep grief, having to struggle to be polite to someone who means well. Someone who thinks he has this tragedy all figured out. I felt my friend’s quiet despair. 

I wonder how many of us think, really think, of the impact of our words on people who are deeply grieving, suffering from a loss so profound that they can’t put it into words?  

We don’t always have an answer for everything. We don’t always have to understand why tragedy strikes -- why a person in the peak of life suddenly gets paralyzed. Why a young mom suddenly has cancer. Why a little girl suddenly dies of a rare blood disease. Why a teenager suddenly drowns in the sea. Why a healthy dad slips in the bathtub and dies. 

Why a young man suddenly commits suicide. 

There are countless, grievous  things happening around us that we have absolutely no control over, and which we cannot understand. So we must stop talking about it in easy platitudes. Shallow cliches. We must stop giving hackneyed comfort. 

Let’s not cheapen people’s suffering by labeling their pain.

It might be convenient and comforting to us to classify their crises in neat little folders. But it’s surely no help to them. And blurting out cheap words of comfort is just adding to their sorrow.  

So it’s good to remember: Cure-all statements are always suspect. Being flippant about pain only inflicts more pain. 

We must learn NOT to say things that give false hope, like “Everything’s going to be all right.” Or “This, too, shall pass.” Because, well...what if it doesn’t?!! 

I know. It works in the movies. But not always in real life. 

Avoid sweeping generalizations like “It’s going to be worse before it gets better.” First, you don’t know if that’s really going to happen. And second, did anyone ask for your opinion? 

Hurting people don’t need to get hurt some more by our glib pronouncements and unsolicited advice. If we don’t know what to say, well, maybe a big bowl of delicious comfort food will give more comfort! Or soft, jumbo pillows that can make sleep come faster and easier for your hurting friend. Maybe a comfortable, warm sweater, or a book oozing with wisdom, or a short prayer and a sincere hug -- all these can bring more comfort, and do more good things than we can ever imagine! 

So. When you’re about to visit a sick person, or a person in grief, please think hard before you go about what you’re going to do, and what you’re going to say.

Be a blessing, not a burden.
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