February 24, 2018, 8:00 am
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1 Philippine Peso = 0.03415 Neth Antilles Guilder
1 Philippine Peso = 0.38059 Argentine Peso
1 Philippine Peso = 0.02443 Australian Dollar
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1 Philippine Peso = 0.01557 Euro
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1 Philippine Peso = 0.01377 British Pound
1 Philippine Peso = 0.08533 Ghanaian Cedi
1 Philippine Peso = 0.89967 Gambian Dalasi
1 Philippine Peso = 172.74122 Guinea Franc
1 Philippine Peso = 0.14073 Guatemala Quetzal
1 Philippine Peso = 3.9296 Guyana Dollar
1 Philippine Peso = 0.15011 Hong Kong Dollar
1 Philippine Peso = 0.45024 Honduras Lempira
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1 Philippine Peso = 1.216 Haiti Gourde
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1 Philippine Peso = 261.23153 Indonesian Rupiah
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1 Philippine Peso = 22.71245 Iraqi Dinar
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1 Philippine Peso = 77.09572 Cambodia Riel
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1 Philippine Peso = 20.55496 Korean Won
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1 Philippine Peso = 0.01573 Cayman Islands Dollar
1 Philippine Peso = 6.12565 Kazakhstan Tenge
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1 Philippine Peso = 0.31853 Moldovan Leu
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1 Philippine Peso = 25.47477 Myanmar Kyat
1 Philippine Peso = 45.90946 Mongolian Tugrik
1 Philippine Peso = 0.15451 Macau Pataca
1 Philippine Peso = 6.71398 Mauritania Ougulya
1 Philippine Peso = 0.62536 Mauritius Rupee
1 Philippine Peso = 0.29868 Maldives Rufiyaa
1 Philippine Peso = 13.76098 Malawi Kwacha
1 Philippine Peso = 0.35911 Mexican Peso
1 Philippine Peso = 0.07494 Malaysian Ringgit
1 Philippine Peso = 0.22327 Namibian Dollar
1 Philippine Peso = 6.88663 Nigerian Naira
1 Philippine Peso = 0.59477 Nicaragua Cordoba
1 Philippine Peso = 0.15035 Norwegian Krone
1 Philippine Peso = 1.98703 Nepalese Rupee
1 Philippine Peso = 0.02611 New Zealand Dollar
1 Philippine Peso = 0.00738 Omani Rial
1 Philippine Peso = 0.01918 Panama Balboa
1 Philippine Peso = 0.06229 Peruvian Nuevo Sol
1 Philippine Peso = 0.0629 Papua New Guinea Kina
1 Philippine Peso = 1 Philippine Peso
1 Philippine Peso = 2.11989 Pakistani Rupee
1 Philippine Peso = 0.06472 Polish Zloty
1 Philippine Peso = 106.82716 Paraguayan Guarani
1 Philippine Peso = 0.06982 Qatar Rial
1 Philippine Peso = 0.07256 Romanian New Leu
1 Philippine Peso = 1.0862 Russian Rouble
1 Philippine Peso = 16.12737 Rwanda Franc
1 Philippine Peso = 0.07193 Saudi Arabian Riyal
1 Philippine Peso = 0.14866 Solomon Islands Dollar
1 Philippine Peso = 0.2582 Seychelles Rupee
1 Philippine Peso = 0.34501 Sudanese Pound
1 Philippine Peso = 0.15536 Swedish Krona
1 Philippine Peso = 0.02534 Singapore Dollar
1 Philippine Peso = 0.01372 St Helena Pound
1 Philippine Peso = 0.42597 Slovak Koruna
1 Philippine Peso = 146.36485 Sierra Leone Leone
1 Philippine Peso = 10.78074 Somali Shilling
1 Philippine Peso = 381.75523 Sao Tome Dobra
1 Philippine Peso = 0.16785 El Salvador Colon
1 Philippine Peso = 9.87876 Syrian Pound
1 Philippine Peso = 0.22325 Swaziland Lilageni
1 Philippine Peso = 0.60368 Thai Baht
1 Philippine Peso = 0.04586 Tunisian Dinar
1 Philippine Peso = 0.0428 Tongan paʻanga
1 Philippine Peso = 0.07262 Turkish Lira
1 Philippine Peso = 0.12717 Trinidad Tobago Dollar
1 Philippine Peso = 0.55966 Taiwan Dollar
1 Philippine Peso = 43.06541 Tanzanian Shilling
1 Philippine Peso = 0.51746 Ukraine Hryvnia
1 Philippine Peso = 69.67197 Ugandan Shilling
1 Philippine Peso = 0.01918 United States Dollar
1 Philippine Peso = 0.54556 Uruguayan New Peso
1 Philippine Peso = 156.62766 Uzbekistan Sum
1 Philippine Peso = 478.3426 Venezuelan Bolivar
1 Philippine Peso = 435.71839 Vietnam Dong
1 Philippine Peso = 1.98465 Vanuatu Vatu
1 Philippine Peso = 0.04817 Samoa Tala
1 Philippine Peso = 10.20986 CFA Franc (BEAC)
1 Philippine Peso = 0.05179 East Caribbean Dollar
1 Philippine Peso = 10.20986 CFA Franc (BCEAO)
1 Philippine Peso = 1.85248 Pacific Franc
1 Philippine Peso = 4.79474 Yemen Riyal
1 Philippine Peso = 0.22325 South African Rand
1 Philippine Peso = 99.5492 Zambian Kwacha
1 Philippine Peso = 6.94226 Zimbabwe dollar

Hackneyed Comfort

Perhaps it isn’t a good idea to keep saying “Everything happens for a reason” when something bad or tragic happens to someone. One day, we might get an answer like, “Oh, yeah? Like what?” Accompanied by a withering stare. 

Because no matter how good our intentions are, it could sound like we’re just brushing off someone’s pain with an easy platitude. 

I have a friend whose five-year-old son died on the operating table. It was more than devastating. 

Maybe God has another word that’s worse than “devastating,” because if there’s a word that’s far worse than that, it’s what my friend is going through. 

With my limited vocabulary, and man’s sorely limited sense of empathy, I don’t think there’s a thesaurus in the world that can give this mom a word that can accurately describe how she feels about losing her adorable little boy. 

That’s why it was such a pain to hear people tell her, “Oh, everything happens for a reason... he’s enjoying it so much in heaven now. He’s in a much better place!” And variations of the same theme. 

I know these people meant well. I know what they’re saying is true. But somehow, what they said didn’t bring my friend much comfort. In fact, I could see that it was leaving her dead cold. But she was just too polite to even wince. I knew she was trying hard not to take offense. 

Imagine that. A person in deep grief, having to struggle to be polite to someone who means well. Someone who thinks he has this tragedy all figured out. I felt my friend’s quiet despair. 

I wonder how many of us think, really think, of the impact of our words on people who are deeply grieving, suffering from a loss so profound that they can’t put it into words?  

We don’t always have an answer for everything. We don’t always have to understand why tragedy strikes -- why a person in the peak of life suddenly gets paralyzed. Why a young mom suddenly has cancer. Why a little girl suddenly dies of a rare blood disease. Why a teenager suddenly drowns in the sea. Why a healthy dad slips in the bathtub and dies. 

Why a young man suddenly commits suicide. 

There are countless, grievous  things happening around us that we have absolutely no control over, and which we cannot understand. So we must stop talking about it in easy platitudes. Shallow cliches. We must stop giving hackneyed comfort. 

Let’s not cheapen people’s suffering by labeling their pain.

It might be convenient and comforting to us to classify their crises in neat little folders. But it’s surely no help to them. And blurting out cheap words of comfort is just adding to their sorrow.  

So it’s good to remember: Cure-all statements are always suspect. Being flippant about pain only inflicts more pain. 

We must learn NOT to say things that give false hope, like “Everything’s going to be all right.” Or “This, too, shall pass.” Because, well...what if it doesn’t?!! 

I know. It works in the movies. But not always in real life. 

Avoid sweeping generalizations like “It’s going to be worse before it gets better.” First, you don’t know if that’s really going to happen. And second, did anyone ask for your opinion? 

Hurting people don’t need to get hurt some more by our glib pronouncements and unsolicited advice. If we don’t know what to say, well, maybe a big bowl of delicious comfort food will give more comfort! Or soft, jumbo pillows that can make sleep come faster and easier for your hurting friend. Maybe a comfortable, warm sweater, or a book oozing with wisdom, or a short prayer and a sincere hug -- all these can bring more comfort, and do more good things than we can ever imagine! 

So. When you’re about to visit a sick person, or a person in grief, please think hard before you go about what you’re going to do, and what you’re going to say.

Be a blessing, not a burden.
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