HEN I turned
eighty two yesterday I received a letter signed by an "Adoring Friend." It was
his "birthday gift" to me, one of many other gifts that I got from my loving
three sons, two daughters, three daughters-in-law, one son-in-law, eight
grandchildren, two sisters, and friends. Here’s the l text of that handwritten
letter:
"Nestor Mata is a unique good fellow who does not seem to
grow old. He refuses to be like an oldie fighting a losing battle against the
irreversibility of time. Rather, he rides on the crest of time’s rhythm with his
expanding hopes and dreams.
The doubts and fears stay with those who just let so many
sunrises and sun downs pass them by. Nestor sees a new beginning in every dawn.
He finds fulfillment when dusk falls.
"In Nestor’s life, gaining years is not the same as getting
older. Rather, it is an expansion of his totality as a person. It is like wine
whose substance is enriched by time.
"The fire of youth is still there. The heat it generates does
not burn, but it gives warmth and hope. The capacity to be outraged by
incompetence and corruption in government has not subsided at all. Instead, it
becomes contagious by the sheer force of its consistency.
"His pen has been shaped by the discipline of his Dominican
training in the Pontifical University of Santo Tomas and refined by his intimate
understanding of the tragic sense of life. The sharpness of his mind is tempered
by the simplicity of his heart.
"Long before the world got trapped in the web of Information
Technology, Nestor had seen first hand the landscape of the Global Village in
his on-site reportage of international events, wars, and interviews with Asian
and other world leaders and personalities. While many could see only scattered
dots, he could visualize unseen connections. He has a gift for sensing hidden
nuances and ramifications.
"Call him a ‘Renaissance Man’ for his passion for the arts,
his pursuit of the limits of the intellect, his familiarity with the voices of
history, his understanding of the dynamics of politics, both local and
international, and his insight into the essentials of transformative political
leadership, among others. But Nestor is beyond level.
"He is childlike to the core. He is compassionate. He never
stops being outraged by blatant injustice. Each new day is a fresh beginning.
Every encounter with a fresh soul is an Epiphany.
"For all the mileage, there is no sign of wear and tear.
Instead there seems to be a continuous renewal of that energy that can come only
from the creator of all the atoms in the universe.
"The woods will always be lovely, dark and deep for Nestor.
There are ‘promises to keep and miles to go’ before the final sunset."
After reading this lexiphanes-like letter, I got the
impression that he considers me a "bel esprit," one with graceful wit, which, I
must say in all humility, I am not. And neither am I a "philodox," one who
thinks that everything he says or writes is always right. I’m simply one who has
dedicated the better part of his life as a newsman of more than six decades now,
obedient only to one cardinal law of journalism, and that is to tell the truth
and shame the devil!
I thank my "Adoring Friend" with all my heart for his letter
that reads like a preface for a living biography, and sounds like a song of
praise to a journalist whose deadline draws near.
***
Every time I celebrate my birthday, dear friends often asked
me how I managed to stay young, Here’s my secret:
Keep only cheerful friends. The grouches pull you down.
Keep learning. Learn more about the computer, crafts,
gardening, whatever. Never let the brain idle. An idle mind, as they say, is the
devil’s workshop. And the devil’s name is Alzheimer’s.
Enjoy simple things.
Laugh often, long and hard. Laugh until you gasp for breath.
The tears happen. Endure, grieve, and move on. The only
person, who is with us our entire life, is ourselves. Be ALIVE while you are
alive.
Surround yourself with what you love, whether it’s family,
pets, keepsakes, music, hobbies, whatever. Your home is your refuge.
Cherish your health. If it is good, preserve it. If it is
unstable, improve it. If it is beyond what you can improve, get help.
Tell the people you love that you love them, at every
opportunity.
And, always remember, life is not measured by the number of breaths we take,
but by the moments that take our breath away. We all need to live life to the
fullest each day!